[justamom]

What I read, what I thought, what I said... I only curse in my head
JamesPsychoanlytic theory supposes that the women will relate to her mate the way she relates to her mom (adding sex of course . .. for some). (WT?, OK, what psycho-anal-ist came up with THIS... Hmmm, have I screwed up my own daughter? Sure.. blame it on the Mom. At this point insert mental dialogue reviewing all the MISTAKES I have made as a parent)
shopgirl I find this very interesting, considering I was a Psychology major. Actually, I've never heard this theory before. Can you provide any other information. Whose theory is it?(Oh no, here we go again...give me a link-can you support that! Geez, I wonder if James can find the guy who wrote that theory? type-type-type, I've never heard that theory, but what I have heard is-type, type, type- post-UH-OH! I hope shopgirl doesn't think I directed that at her! Should I edit It??)
JAMI would hate to see all our exchanges and dialogue limited to information that could only be supported by readily available research. That would be too limiting. On theother hand, I have read that it is the father that is the physical model for the attraction a female has to her mate.
James You are both being inattentive. I stated that a girl's model for the emotional relationship with her mate is supposed to be similar to the way she deals with her emotional relationship with her mother. This would translate into behavior. (inattentive-INATTENTIVE?!? reread posts-hmm I typed bead instead of beard-oh, I'm sure they 'll get it...no, I know what I said. I think YOU're being inattentive James. Oh, what does shopgil have to say?)shopgirl Geez Louise!!! I'm sorry!!! (GEEZ ME TOO!)
JAM Please note the word PHYSICAL as compared to your use of the word EMOTIONAL. (OH shoot, there's that BEAD. I wish knew how to put smiles in...)JamesSo I guess I'd have to ask, being brain dead before my first cup of coffee, what did you mean by "on the other hand"? lol ( What exactly IS in that coffee James...Now I need to clarify to all responders? What is the BFD about "on the othe hand" Crap, I hope the board isn't getting POed over this. It was an ALTERNATIVE THEORY!!! Did I suggest that his theory sucked? I just posted another theory... Ok, I guess the next time I post, I'll have to use CAPS or BOLD on the right words lets see-"...On the OTHER hand,( IT'S A SEGWAY!!! IT'S SUGESTS A NEW/DIFFERENT VIEW) I HAVE read (IMPLYING I HAVE NEVER READ THE OTHER THEORY) that it is the father that is the PHYSICAL(AS AN ALTERNATIVE TO EMOTIONAL) model for the attraction a female has to her mate. For instance, if her father bore a bead,( OH SH*T THERE"S THAT DAMN BEAD AGAIN) the girl would most likely be attracted to hairier men." )
Now, THIS is my response or this IS my response or this is MY response! I hope you take this as it is intended-with humor and admittedly, a touch of sarcasm. (Damn it...now I have to go to that Death penalty thread and post my links since JAMES resurrected it!) Insert a smile!