[AlexMack]

We had biological sisters in my chapter. The elder had already gone alum when I pledged, but she came back and participated in my class' initiation. A good friend and also an alum chapter sister of mine cannot stand the younger of the sisters. I never had a problem with her though. I think being a legacy is most likely a much bigger deal in the south (as it is with all aspects of greek life) so that could put a lot of pressure on a PNM.
If I had a daughter, I'd like her to go Sigma Kappa but ultimately I want her to be happy. (I'd be secretly pleased if she went AXiD as well because my sister-in-law is an AXiD). Why bother pledging a sorority that's not right for you just because your mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin and cousin's female dog went DEF?