Billy - Huh...well, that's nice.
I can understand someone being miffed if a woman cancelled a date last minute for no good reason or was a bitch about it.
But, it sounds like what you're telling me is that if I make a date with someone, and cancel it for any reason, that I am a bitch and basically am committing social suicide. If that's the case, I think what you wrote is bullshit. Not only have I cancelled a date and not suffered any of the repercussions you mentioned, but I actually know quite a few women who have lived through it as well.
In fact, I broke a date with a guy in the very same fraternity as the guy I am currently dating. You wanna know why? Because I didn't think it was fair that I would go out on a date with someone, when I knew that I was extremely interested in someone close to him. Can you imagine what a fiasco it would have been had I started something with this other guy, and then gone on to my current boyfriend??? I don't think so. Thankfully he was mature about it and ended up helping me get together with the other guy and I can guarantee that if we get married, he will be at our wedding. Probably more details than you wanted to know, but I felt like including them to prove my point. I think it's sad that there might be fraternities that would blacklist a woman just because she didn't want to lead a guy on. UGH.
Anyhoo, I don't know if you were just trying to prove a point or if you were serious, but I don't take kindly to being told that "I suck" because I might break a date with a pushy mo'fo' who won't get off the phone until I promise to bear his children.