If you don't want it to be ugly handle it yourself, just tell her she can not sing with the sorors od do anything related to AKA. If she is resistant and affirms she is a member ask for her card. It sounds harsh, but if you let other sorors do it (especially at the wedding) things may not go too well.
Tell her that you love her regardless, but she needs to respect you and your big day.
__________________
I AM LEGEND January 15, 1908 A LEGEND WAS BORN!
|