[delph998]

Soror,

I think that you've brought up a great discussion topic. Personally, I think there's some truth to what the brotha stated in the excerpt. We as women have become more independent in today's society. I feel that deep down inside, we all want a man in our life, but we're sick of the games, lies, cheating, etc., so we choose to move on and make great strides on our own. When the time comes for a "real" man to step to us, he might feel intimidated by our demeanor. BUT, if he's a real man, he would step up anyway. Ultimately, that's what we, independent women, want out of our significant others.