[33girl]

I think a lot of times, even if they try not to, moms or sisters end up putting pressure on the legacy to join their group. It's all around hard, because not only does the mom/sis have to deal with the fact that the group might not be the best fit for their daughter/sis, but that if THEY were going through rush, the chapter might not be the best fit for them anymore either. It's a lot easier to just think that the chapter is going on with people you would like and hang out with even if that is no longer the case.