[ChildoftheHorn]

OK, as far as the whole sex thing goes....
Someone once told me:
If someone slept with another sister's boyfriend, its not a reason to be brought up. That is their own business to take care of, not ours.
If a girl sleeps with the whole football team and now everyone thinks that (some group) are sluts, then that is our problem.
We have a lot of rules on drinking. First and foremost, no where near the house or any other place near the sorority quads - no matter the age. You will be thrown out or denied to any event and even the house if you are drunk or had been drinking. Even if you are of age, no pictures unless it is at a public place where everyone is 21+. You are responsible for any dates you have at any events. If your date is drunk or does drugs just prior or at the event, its almost like if you had done it.

There are some people on the war path about this stuff at my school and one sorority has already been suspended from social activities for a full year.
Mostly because of pics on facebook!

The plain and simple thing is that if you wouldn't do it in front of grandma or that grandma would be ashamed, then don't do it.