[AKA_Monet]

Hilarious!

Cheating men will get caught eventually. Maybe not by the original cheated, but maybe by a lately cheated... Women cheat too. I don't know if they are fundamentally similar in tactics or different in outcomes? But, bottom line, humans have high infidelity wired into our systems. It is the same with the chimpanzee. Whereas, the gorilla males generally have 2 mates only and always...

Survival of the fittest...

But if we are talking about love, a trule erotic deep love shared by a husband and wife before God and all that good stuff, then the room for cheating is a spiritual infraction and blasphemy before God. If one in the relationship can live a lie to his or herself and enjoy deception and become demonic by adding things that ought not be present in a Shiva/Shakti relationship, then hey, I hope they can live with themselves...

I can tell, you in my marriage, I have no control if my husband cheats on me. But those are things I do not hope to happen. However, if it did, because I made the commitment myself to not cheat on him, so he'd be the one cheating, then I hope he is happy with his life without me. And I will move on.

I have been with a cheater before I was married. I know what one looks like and the behavior. That is not a life I wish to pursue.