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Originally Posted by kddani
While I agree with you in regards to some posters (one or two in particular), just because someone is married does not mean that they are in a "successful" relationship and thus are the only ones who should give dating advice. a) if you're married, you've been out of the dating pool for awhile and b) a married person could be in a miserable, dysfunctional marriage and thus may not exactly be qualified in advising other people how to find good relationships
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ITA. I am in a happy marriage, but have been out of the 'pool' long enough that I would be kind of lost if I had to get back in.
I agree with PP that she should she go, (after all, it's only coffee) and if she senses any vibes, she could very kindly let him know how glad she is to have a friend like him. It isn't leading him on, since she really doesn't know his true intentions anyway. And if he is interested in more and is disappointed, that is sad, but at least she will have done the honest and kind thing.
(BTW, that's how I met my husband, and ended up falling in love with him anyway!
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