Both my husband and I went to strip clubs for our bachelor/ette parties. They stripped to thongs... I don't think "totally nude" is allowed in Massachusetts. (One of my husband's groomsmen actually wanted to drive 60 miles each way to an all-nude club in Rhode Island. I put the kabosh (sp?) on that idea
) Afterwards, the guys and girls all got together in our apartment to watch Sex Trek... we're both big science fiction fans, and the porn parody is hilarious
It was all "look but don't touch" and there were no totally nude strippers - so it was ok in my book.
I would not have wanted either of us to have a private party or anything, though.