ok.
That is a really sucky way to ask a girl out.
Girls admire confidence that is short of cockiness (and what they consider cocky will be determiend by their self-confidence).
So its kind of vague to call a girl up and ask if she wants to go out. Or even to say whenever.
Always call with a plan. Ask to her a place at a certain time, perferably pretty quick.
" Lets catch a cup of something hot later tonight, I need a break from all the stuff I am doing, I am so beyond busy."
In one non-rambling sentence you have indicated you want to see her, you are decisive, and you are probably busier than she is. Many people associate busy with a kind of social importance.
If she is like no I have too much to do tonight. You say, are you sure you won't want a cup of cofee later tonight? I bet it will be calling your name. Make sure you say it in a flirty way, In fact your whole conversation should be flirty. Not dead or matter of fact.
If she asks you what you are going to do later: tell her you are going to work on Fraternity stuff and then take a break later, you had just been hoping SHE could go because you wanted to spend some time with her.
You are telling her here that you still have a social life without her, and will go places alone (or worse with someone) if she doesn't go. Girls hate to miss out or be replaced. And you still made it clearyou anted to see her.
Final step: Don't hang up that phone without a future date! You know it looks like we are both really busy, why don't we plan something fun, like dinner and some mintiature golf, for later this week? Name two or three days in the next coming week that you have free time, and we'll match it up with my calendar also.
OH well good luck
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Originally posted by Optimist Prime
Yeah I called. Asked her if she wanted to go out. She was like "tonight?" And i was like "well whenever." Then asked her for something specific (lunch-best I can do as campus is the only thing in town.) She told me she is real busy, but to call early next week.
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