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UPDATE!! So, he was in Chicago on business, which is cool. I mean, I wish he would have called to say that but oh well. We talked last night and this is my conclusion--he is not a player, but just playing it safe. What is the hard thing is I am the same way. I NEVER want to put my heart out there because I am scared of being hurt and I think he is the same way. BUT here is the good news--when we were talking last night, just as we were hanging up, I told him to give me a call sometime next week, so we could get together and he was like "yeah, that would be great". And then he says "or if you get home one night and you feel like doing something, just call me--I like hearing from you, too!". Okay, THAT made me feel SOOOOOOO much better because I HATE calling guys(I always feel like I am chasing them and my mom always told me that real ladies don't call boys). but the fact that he specifically came out and said to call him and he likes hearing from me made me feel better if I do want to call him. So, that is my update. I think this is just a VERY slowly progressing relationship and take it from there. Hey--its better to have a slowly progressing relationship than no relationship at all. Thanks everyone for listening!!
And BILLY--I say do call her back. I know I am crazy busy right now and sometimes it comes off as not wanting to see the person, but you really do. Give it one more try and see what happens but make it flexible. GOOD LUCK!!
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