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Originally Posted by 33girl
Considering your big sis (unless you mean your biological big sis) was never on campus when little sisters were in existence, I really don't think she is qualified to speak on the matter.
Sorry if I'm bitchy about this, but some of my best friends in college were little sisters and I get really irritated when these old, untrue urban myths get brought up by people who don't know what they're talking about.
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I am a bit torn here because I do believe that the guys I knew specifically, probably had sex on their minds as well. For instance, one little sis rush event I recall clearly involved two guys at a check in table taking names from girls who wanted to be little sisters. If you paid attention, after you started to leave the table, the guys would drop your name either in the good pile or the bad, solely based on your appearance. Now realistically, you can't fault the guys entirely for wanting their little sisters to be attractive as they were a reflection on XYZ.
I do believe some of the guys were thinking they might get sex from the girls but that would also assume that the girls themselves had no say in the matter which would be an erroneous assumption. We learned really quickly which girls were "easy" and which weren't but that wasn't grounds for kicking them out of little sisters. Though we would at some point end up talking to them about it and the cloud that persons' behavior placed on the group. In my case, I did end up dating and marrying a brother but I can state factually that we did do many charitable events with the brothers.
I can not find fault though with the NIC rules established in the late 80's. I felt that most of their reasoning was intended to protect the brotherhood itself.