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Originally Posted by FSUZeta

a simple activity is to have a candle pass. each sister may say one negative thing about the chapter but MUST follow it up with a positive statement. you can set a time limit for each speaker.

To go along on this you set guidelines before:

Be honest, but don't attack anyone.
Say both positive and negative things, get out how you really feel
No talking unless your the one with the candle.
All cell phones off
Whatever is said stays in the room
etc

Make sure you have a box of tissues per sister. Trust me, even the ones who don't think they will need them...they are the ones who reach for them first.

Make sure everyone gets at least one chance to speak, and if they feel that they have more to say, let them.