I find it very interesting how secretive you are about your symbols (rituals, I can understand as well, but not as strictly as you see it) - I mea, we have our rituals and symbols and we surely don't brag around about it, but if people ask we can and do tell - no big deal.
Is that specific for sororities or are the fraternities as secretive about this stuff? And, please don't be offended, but how does that go with the idea of not being secret societies anymore. Were there times in history when this was different? Maybe I am mixing some things up, so please excuse my ignorance and again, please don't be offended - and no, I don't want secret info
I guess, a lot of people - those who put the website on rituals up and such - find this stuff so interesting becaue it is so "secret", like little children: they always want what they cannot get even though it does not mean a thing to them...