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Originally Posted by statedawg
i'm getting a sense of what each chapter is about through their sites but i know what they choose to put on their own websites can be deceiving.
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Absolutely. You need to take what you can from it.
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Originally Posted by statedawg
I'm from Biloxi and have seen older friends of mine who stuck together as a group in high school end up at different houses at MSU, which makes this whole thing a little harder to figure out.
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That's really common, actually. As you get older you start looking for different things in your relationships. Interests start coming into sharper focus when you get to college. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have to lose the friends that you have from high school though. I joined a sorority that my close friends from high school would never have joined. The important thing is that it was right for
me and helped me develop as a person.
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Originally Posted by statedawg
To defend my question, I think some of the guys know where I'm coming from... First, I want a fraternity that is going to be fun--and I want a group of drinking buddies too. At the same time, though, I want a fraternity that I am proud of, that will earn the respect of my parents, and strong friendships for the rest of my life. Good people who work hard and play hard. Not so small that the parties suck, but not so big that people don't know each other. Is that too much to look for?
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Nope! Not too much to look for at all. I think what you're looking for is right on target. But, ya know, even if all you wanted was the partying it really isn't anyone's business but your own.
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Originally Posted by statedawg
To boil this down, I get the impression that most fraternities have some sort of image--jocks, dorks, potheads, rich guys, preps, animal house, etc. Apparently a few don't really fit in a category, but are just considered "good" or "bad" by general standards. Maybe I have this whole thing wrong, but that's the kind of stuff I'm trying to find out.
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Yes, they most definitely
do have images. Don't let anyone try to tell you otherwise.