... starts talking during a major expository moment in a news story or documentary.
... thinks they know me based on something I've written or said in a public forum
... tells me "you have such a pretty face" as if that somehow takes the sting out of them telling me I'm fat.
... asks me "can you wash your hair when it's like that?" when they see my dreads
... asks me "can I touch your hair?" when they see my dreads
... assumes I'm a black nationalist or that I hate white people because of my hair
... assumes I'm a black nationalist or that I hate white people because I majored in African American studies
... assumes I'm stupid because I'm from the South
... assumes that I chose to become a Zeta because I wasn't "good enough" to get into another organization