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Originally Posted by rastaone
oh and i have tried to include the socially awkward guys in our events or even small things at our apartments. the thing is, they tend to look down on alcohol and actually talk shit about make sarcastic remarks about us when we drink. they actually feel that alcohol is a BAD thing, which i dont understand at all
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Why do they think it is bad? Because they have true convictions about it or because they have social hangups? I suspect the latter based on what you are saying.
Man, you might want to take this to an Eye. I hate beating around the bush- serves no purpose- and my suggestion would be you bring this up and just let the chapter have it out and let everyone make their views clear, and why they feel that way.
Best part is that anyone who does not have a legitimate viewpoint they can defend will be pushed into a more passive state if you approach them head-on. And that will mean you have less trouble in future in your efforts to help build the chapter.