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Originally Posted by fantASTic
Wow, this surprises me on how strict a lot of people are on this. Our sweetheart this year was given a sweatshirt with stitched letters and "Sweetheart 2007" underneath it. He wears it, and it's cute. We love him!
As far as lavaliering goes..I was VERY surprised to see ThetaChiGuy being so upset about someone wearing his letters, since the QXs on our campus are very liberal with lavaliering here. One of our sisters got lavaliered after dating about five months, and she has letters from them. It's not uncommon.
Ohsass, I don't understand why it's okay for you to have a Lil Sis sweatshirt but not for a lavaliered woman to borrow a letters sweatshirt. Can you reason that out for me?
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Personally I think there's a difference between a Sweetheart that the whole fraternity chooses and a woman who was lavaliered individually by a brother, whether or not the other brothers approve...the letters DO belong to all of them. My boyfriend lavaliered me, but Delta Chi did not...it was his individual choice, therefore it's not my right to wear a lettered sweatshirt, for instance.