Val and DZRose, I agree with you. Once I accept a date with someone, that's it. My friends would never think to say anything nasty (again, unless the guy was a stalker

, etc.), because it's pretty obvious that if I had doubts myself, I would not have accepted the date in the first place. Duh! What kind of lame ass would I be if I let my friends "ewww" ruin a potential hot date.

If anything, I'd be determined to prove her wrong!
I find it unfortunate that men really think that most women disect them in groups. I mean, I'm sure that some women are like this, but only those who are without a backbone and extremely impressionable, not to mention bitchy.