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What I really was trying to focus on was not Imus but why is it that black folk have a problem with nappy hair. For example, many black people who knew me before I went natural have asked me " why in the world did you mess up your hair like that?" Mess up? What's so messed up about natural hair? Or the classic, " Girl I could never wear my hair natural" and why is that? Another example is that once I started wearing my natural hair, I got more WHITE men trying to get with me than black men and I have heard this from several other natural sistas who say that their black boyfriends/ husbands had a problem with them going natural. Why is that? Why are we allowing one group of people to dictate to us what is beautiful and what isn't?