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Old 01-15-2002, 06:47 PM
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Now that's some serious stuff. I'm married, so if my husband told me one day that he had been with a Man at some point in his life, I don't know what I'd do. I think that there would be a serious issue of trust in jeopardy, because all that should have come out prior to marriage. So, I don't think I would trust him anymore. I'd be thinking he was keeping secrets and would be concerned that he might be feeling a little "twinging urge" in the "rear area" from time to time that I just can't fulfill!!!!!!! I would have to pray long and hard about this, but would most likely be done with him, because of the whole trust thing. There's too many diseases out there.

But now, Men....what would you say if your Wife/Girlfriend, told you that she had been with a Woman at some point prior to your relationship. I know a whole bunch of brothers, including my own husband, who probably would say "hey, that's her own little freaky side" and wouldn't care...probably in hopes that you might actually get that urge again and let him watch!!!

I made my husband write out a list of all the women he had been with before we were married. Now, I don't know whether his list was complete or not, but I will trust that it was.
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