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Originally Posted by NCGirl09
Like I said, I'm a new member so don't completely get all this stuff. But I thought a guy you lavaliered/your sweetheart was involved somehow with your secrets/rituals?
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What she said. Lavaliering just means that you really like the girl and that you're putting her in front of her letters. The guys might have a ceremony for that, but it isn't ritual.
Sweethearts just means that the chapter likes you (and often that you're dating someone in the chapter) and again, they may have a ceremony, you may get to wear the other chapter's letters in some form, but you are not a member nor privy to any information that is restricted to members.