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Old 04-18-2007, 11:23 AM
susan314 susan314 is offline
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Originally Posted by 1908Revelations View Post
Even if you went to go get the most busted faced person on earth someone still saw something in them, maybe not their looks, but I have seen (which I am sure we all have) people who look far less than attractive in relationships and quite possibly they cheat too. Just like you (the general you) saw something in that person, dosent meant no one else will!!! The guy I am involved with is quite attractive, and other people think he is also, but that dosent mean I am going to tuck my tail and hide.
This is true - there are no easy answers. One could argue that an extremely good-looking person may have more opportunities/temptations to cheat. But one could also argue the danger of assuming that a less-attractive person would be less likely to stray - perhaps that less-attractive person would have confidence issues and/or not as much experience with the opposite sex, so they would feel the need to jump at any opportunity that comes his/her way...they may feel like they need to "prove something" and wouldn't want to pass on any prospects.

Its better to make your assessment on the character of the individual person involved, rather than try to lump "good looking" and "less-attractive" people into broad categories.
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