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Well. guess what---he called last night. I was out(actually at an AOTT alum dinner), but when I got in my car and checked my cell phone, he had called there, but had not left a message. When I got home, he had left a message on my answering machine saying he had been in Chicago since Thursday(no reason why) and to give him a call when I got a chance.
Okay, this does get points because he did not have my cell phone number but it is on my answering machine, which means he took the time to write it down and call that, after he couldn't reach me on my home phone.
I didn't call him(I wasn't home till after 11--20 AOTT alums and a Mexican resturant with margarita's does not make for an early night!!) but I will tonight, while thinking of all of the advice you guys have so readily given. I guess I didn't mean for it to come across that I didn't like him, just because I was busy, but maybe thats how he saw it. The crappy thing is my mom is coming into town this weekend(well, its not crappy because I LOVE my mom and I miss her!), so I have the family thing and then I am going to Charlotte next weekend to have an AOTT reunion with some of my sisters that has been planned for about 3 months. So, its not that I don't want to see this guy--I am just busy in January. February is MUCH better. But lets hope this guy likes the idea of a Thursday night dinner or something.
On another note--I COMPLETELY AGREE with everyone that said the guy should have some idea what they want to do for the date, at least the first one. I don't care if its just that you LOVE Chili's margarita's and you want one, so you pick Chili's. Just please have some idea where you want to go or do before you call. It is VERY IMPRESSIVE. I just want a guy to take me to see Black Hawk Down. Just think guys--2 and half hours of watching Josh Hartnett, other yummy soilders, and a tear jerker movie. If that is not a guranteed good night kiss, I don't know what is!!
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