[LexiKD]

OK, here goes!

UMgirl: Disrespect can come in many forms, posing nude in palyboy or any pornographic venue would be such that an organization has the right to pull a membership and/or members would connote that as embarassing/not upholding the organizations values. When you say the orgnaization should respect you, what does that mean? Does your organization not have your best interests in mind and hasn't she opend many oppurtunites to you and filled your college life with memorable experiences...is that not respect? In return do you not have a obligation of membership to uphold the same ideals, to give back to the best of your ability...not doing something that could intentionally damage your group...is that so hard?

Amycat: There is a difference between art and Pornography. Playboy is not art. Art isn't pairing heels with a birthday suit before an ad for sextoys, herbal viagra... at least in my book it isn't.

33: Not what I meant. I meant we all joined a group that to us was our best fit and that should be regarded as sacred. And for me it is KD and for others it should be your letters as well. Mediocre in terms of I could have not been Greek and been able to do anything and only hurt myself in the process-the easy way out, not having to worry about how I effected others.

For the rest. When you joined your organization, you had to have taken an oath of some sort to uphold membership within the confines of your organization's standards...right? Does that mean you have to be a perfect cookie cutter XYZ, no, but it does mean you joined an organization, assumed responisibility for those letters for your life, and should have some obligation to uphold your organizations name.

DZrose: I wish there were more like you out there.