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I'm assuming you mean by choice...
meaning he wasn't molested or anything.
By choice, there's nothing for me to think about. Hasta La Vista. Too many chances for a relapse/ reoccurrance, or whatever you want to call it, and those stories about those undercover brothas are disturbing.
You know, I was watching this special on TV the other night called "The Missing Minister" (true story - Connie Chung was interviewing him). This guy goes on a road trip to Texas (?) I think, and disappears for years, leaving his wife and daughter to wonder what happened to him. Meanwhile, his daughter had to be sent away to a private school and placed on all kinds of meds to deal with her misplaced anger against her mother due to his disappearance. Well, he shows back up in town as a minister, claims he doesn't remember what happened while he disappeared, but thinks that due to some sort of physical attack, he's now gay. Of course, his family is crushed, the wife doesn't believe his "amnesia" (and neither do I to be frank), and his mother-in-law is like "he was probably gay before, but too afraid to reveal it to his wife & church. Just be a man and admit it..."
Anyway, I said all of that to say, when someone reveals that sort of info, personally I would see it as a set up for failure to stay. But that's just my opinion.
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