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Originally Posted by a.e.B.O.T.
I am not disagreeing with anything you said: advice is helpful... but he didnt ask for a lecture, and part of the undergrad experience is working something out for yourself and figuring what works best for your chapter. If he wanted in depth details about all the knooks and crannies... he'd ask! Point him in the right direction, but let him do the rest, thats the point! That is what builds character.
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I agree with what you are saying. I did not think I was offering too much detail- just pointing out a great many courses and some high level points to think about.
However, working late and coming here for a break and typing some massive post I have to concede reading it again that it did come off as a lecture and that is my bad.
How the message is delivered is just as important as the content, and I did not mean to be preachy.