I know the date on the thread is old, but I just have to say...
I'm happily married. I adore my husband and am completely loyal to him. He is my best friend and also quite a hottie (in my completely biased opinion
).
That said, I have a huge (innocent) crush on a guy from his softball team. He is just too adorable. (And a police officer too, though I've never had the opportunity to see him in uniform.) My husband knows though - he cracks jokes to me about it. (Ex - when we happened to be driving through his neighborhood to visit family who lives in the same area, my husband pointed and said "hey, there's your boyfriend's house." Or if we're going out with a group of friends, he'll tell me "your boyfriend's going to be there.") Obviously my husband is a
very good sport, and we are very secure in our relationship.
Developing an attraction to someone else is normal and isn't necessarily a bad thing. Its what you
do (or should I say "don't do") about the attraction that matters.
