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Originally Posted by kddani
I disagree- it is absolutely tacky. A lot of people consider that fishing for gifts. Receiving an invitation to something you can't attend makes most people feel that they have to at least send a gift. If you know someone can't attend, then send them an annoucement or picture or something after the fact. Don't send them an invite to something you already know they can't attend.
Fishing for gifts is always tacky.
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Either way someone ends up getting mad because if you send someone an invite then they may or may not feel the need to send a gift if they can't attend (i'm not expecting people that don't attend to give us a gift), on the other hand if you don't invite them at all then they're pissed anyway whether or not that had any intentions of coming or not. Ultimately I'm gonna do me. It's our day I'm the only who has to be smiling!!! Just my opinion... take it with a grain of salt.
