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Yeah, you completely misread my post.
To summarize:
If you ask us, we will tell you. Some people more directly than others. If you give us information, we will assume you don't mind an analysis of it.
I'm guessing that the thing that upset you was people pointing out that while tough semesters and financial problems do happen to everyone, some of the things that happened to you seemed within your control.
There was a poster on here a while back who rejected a sorority for what seemed really lame reasons and I called her on it - once she clarified a little, it made more sense. But you have to realize all anyone has to go on is words on the screen. There's a difference between (example) "I transferred 4 times" and "I transferred 4 times because my father went into bankruptcy and I had to be living with him for him to get benefits and he moved from place to place to find jobs" or whatever.
If you can't take the scrutiny of posters on a MB, rush might be a very upsetting experience for you. Sororities ARE going to look at things like transferring multiple times.
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