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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
Hello Everyone,
It is that time of the year again. Some prospectives are getting acceptance letters and others are being rejected.
I have some questions for ALL BGLO sorority members. Did YOU join your sorority through a collegiate or alumnae chapter?
For those who joined via the ALUMNAE chapter,
A. Did you apply for membership during your college years?
B. While waiting for the chance to join, what did you do in the meantime?
C. While others around you were becoming members, how did you stay focused on the mission of joining the sisterhood that you felt lead to pursue?
To ALL BGLO Sorority members, what advice would you give those who were not chosen this year for membership?
For my SFs who are waiting/hoping to become a member what are you doing to keep your interests and to increase your attractiveness?
My Words of Encouragement:
1. Sometimes a DENIAL is a DELAY.
2. Ecclesiastes 3:1 -- There is a time for EVERYTHING, and a season for EVERY ACTIVITY under heaven.
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I went undergrad.
For all of those that are not chosen this year for membership:
1. If at first you don't suceed, try, try again.
2. Don't take it personal and don't become bitter. Everyone handles rejection differently, however, after you've gotten past the initial hurt, respond with maturity. It may be hard to see people come out with their letters, the hurt is inevitable, but be happy for them. If xyz sorority is really in your heart, focus on what
you need to work on for the next time around.
3. Don't be discouraged, and don't worry about what GDI's and those that were too afraid to apply may think. Some of the hardest workers in BGLOs did not make it the first or second time around.