04-03-2007, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Virtual Violet
To me this is indicative of a deeper problem. He's basically telling he is not open to trying new things to please her. He has told her not to expect to do something she seems to like (traveling overseas) if she marries him. She can't complain later if her honeymoon consists of a weekend at the local Hollday Inn and that "we never go anywhere". HE TOLD YOU UP FRONT. Personally, if he is willing to treat the honeymoon as a weekend afterthough, how will he treat you in the marriage?
Mind you I have never been married and in my early 40's, but I'm not willing to overlook somethings for the sake of being married just because I'm "older". If its meant to be, then it will happen.
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Ditto
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