First, let me say that I can speak for ME and only ME. I am a SF that is VERY interested in Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. I truly appreciate ALL help that has been given to me. I feel that as SF's, we need to research with what God gave us. We (for the most part) were blessed with two hands, two feet, a mind, and COMMON SENSE. Common sense...hmmm...well, some of us have and some of us never will!!!
We must use these gifts given to us to research & study.
Never have I expected to be handed any help or information...and definitely not on a platter for that matter. Nor do I expect anyone to help me because I feel it is not their obligation. If anyone should be obligated to do anything, it's me. I should feel obligated to get off my a$$ and work for what it is that I want. Do we work hours at our jobs only to have our paychecks given to someone who's sat on their a$$???? So why should some SF's be handed "paychecks" if they've sat on their a$$e$ expecting the ladies of AKA do the work????
I learned a very valuable saying that proved to be very true and helpful while I was basic training. It is also helpful when it comes to discretion. "It is better to be seen than to be heard."