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Originally Posted by Alphagamuga
Maybe I misunderstood, but I was thinking that they were listing how they would line up to be taped for a video as part of recruitment. Even if you didn't have any mean intentions, you'd have to do some planning as to how to arrange people, if only by height.
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I don't LIKE the idea of putting more traditionally beautiful women in front and less in back...but as long as they are ALL in it, that's better than some instances I've seen. At least the women weren't being kept from the video.
But to be fair, I think my feelings would be hurt, too.
Not every single one of my sisters is nice to me...I don't know anyone who loves every single one of their sisters...and in fact there was a very serious incident between myself and another woman at one point...but I wouldn't let one person make me feel unwelcome, because I have just as much right to participate in Alpha Gam as she does. That's not fair to myself or my chapter...I wonder if she had a small group of the 120 picking on her or if it was pressure from the chapter in general? If a sister leaves because of the actions taken by other sister(s), then the problem needs to be addressed...I know it'll be harder to address it if it's a chapter mentality and not the actions of a certain group of girls.