Hey sweetie,
I'm sorry that you're going thru tons of shit right now. I'll be pulling for you, girl! You seem like such a sweetie. By the way, Arizona is an excellent school and I am sure you'll enjoy it there. Also, since you want to go Greek, I must give a plug for my sisters at the UA!
The Thetas there are classy, sweet, and beautiful -- inside and out! Maybe you'll go Theta at the UA?
Best of luck to you,