Newbie, I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts. I have my own experience about persuading my parents (dad especially) about letting me go to my number #1 choice. I am too tired right now to type it out, but I would gladly e-mail it or post it if it might help in some way.
I sent you a PM the other day...I don't know if you got it
Good luck with everything...and please stay strong. I know everything feels out of control at the moment, but things will work out for you.
Melissa