I hear ya James. Lets start a movement.
I can think of all kinds of hurtful things I've been told. Some of the typical lines that girls who have been my cuddle buddies.
"I'm not ready for a relationship right now in my life and I have too many other things to accomplish"
"I'm not good at relationships"
"You live too far"
"Your too old"
"You have issues"
"Lets just be friends(which means buh-bye)"
Then of course the little pat on the back. There'll be someone.
Thats exactly right. There will be someone and you wont be that girl to win the prize babe.