[James]

http://www.motherinlawstories.com/mo...s_12_25_99.htm

Crazy mother-in-law site.

I'm having MIL problems, and we're not even married. My fiancé and I have been together for almost 6 years. We own a house together and we are engaged. His mother HATES me. Due to the fact that I have never done anything mean to her, and that I have done her countless favors, I can only believe that she hates me because we are not the same religion. My fiancé's brother also married outside his religion, and MIL hates her too, also for no apparent reason. This woman is mean, cold and nasty to me, and since my fiancé is a spineless, gutless wonder, he would never say anything to mommy. I told him that since he does and says nothing to her, that he is sending a message to her that this type of behavior is ok with him. He just doesn't get it. She openly favors her daughter's two young kids, and her other son's daughter has asked me a number of times, "why doesn't grandma like me?" She has managed to break us up twice. She single-handedly cancelled our wedding 3 times. This woman would chew off her own arm if it would prevent us from getting married. I have never wanted another human being dead before ... I do now. She has caused us, and her other son and his wife, so much grief. I finally told my fiancé that we are NEVER getting married, because of his mother. He said, "I though you wanted to get married." I said, "I do want to get married. I just don't want to marry you." We are in therapy now because of her. Our therapist asked us what we fight about, excluding his mommy, and we couldn't come up with anything. I'm not sure about this, but doesn't it say in the Bible that a "Husband shall leave his mother" for his wife?