Go with your gut. If you really are feeling that you haven't connected with other members (and not just that you're feeling left out right now), then think twice before going through initiation. OTOH, think about the fact that you might not get a bid from another fraternity in the fall and you may remain independent for the rest of your college career. It's not an easy decision, but it sounds like you're having some serious doubts - so maybe you already have a good idea of what to do...
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