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Originally Posted by christiangirl
Is sex really such a big deal that you would pass up a good woman if you don't get it?
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Yes and no. Sex is a very important part of a mature relationship. Unfortunately, the guys that bailed after finding out that you were not going to have sex with them either really weren't into you or were not looking for the kind of mature relationship that you were looking for. Now, I don't mean to say that a person who chooses to stop dating someone because of a difference in opinion about when sex is appropriate is a sex maniac or anything. They have that right to do as they please and at least they checked out before the relationship progressed.
I believe that you can have a healthy relationship without having sex. However, both people need to be upfront about their feelings... it seems like you were upfront and that is what caused the guy to flee.
Trust me, you will find a guy that is into you for who you are and will be willing to put his desires on hold until you are ready.
(sorry, I didn't read the entire thread so I hope I'm not jumping to conclusions.)
p.s.- I'm a virgin in a serious relationship with a non virgin.