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Originally Posted by KSig RC
What on the Earth happened in this thread?
Also, any time this exact conversation comes up, there's always one interesting disconnect: the virgin is willing to recognize how rare their own virginity is (or how difficult it may be), but then wonders why s/he has trouble finding a mate to accept/understand . . .
It's going to be hard - most people like sex, that's kind of the point - so yeah, you're going to have to look harder or lower your standards. Remember, guys are kind of retarded, so I'm sure you can find a dorky engineer to pay for everything and let you stomp all over him until he becomes financially secure enough to afford a divorce - not every guy has the Cap'n Save-a-hoe mentality, but most do, so yeah. You're starting with two strikes.
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Okay, first thing's first.....
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
at Captain Save a Hoe
Okay, I'm gonna be real, because I think I just let myself admit why this upsets me, so if I start to offend people or sound judgemental, let me know.
I look around me at the selection of women that my campus offers. Quality women, for the most part very nice. But looking at the ones who are in committed relationships or at least date a lot of handsome, well-mannered men, I can't help but compare to see what I'm doing wrong. There are sistahs out there who (and if this sounds judgmental I apologize, it's just observations) who look and act a hot mess on a consistent basis. Some look AND SMELL as though they aren't taking care of themselves. Some are mean and catty. Some spend more time in the boy dorms than their own and put their business in the street all the time. Many are extremely overweight AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING UNATTRACTIVE, they simply look completely and totally unhealthy. Some are perfectly likeable, beautiful, kind, warm-hearted, hard workers, etc. Then there's me--sweet but sassy, thick but shapely, nice but honest. I respect myself and others around me, do well in school (straight As) , make my own money, about to have a degree. I'm not fashion forward, but I at least BATHE REGULARLY, you can't smell me coming. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, lots of personality. I can have sort of a temper, a little attitude when you disrespect me or one of my friends--I'm mostly nice to everyone, but I'm no pushover. So I'm not saying that I'm better than anybody, THAT'S NOT TRUE, but from what I observe, the only thing that other women do that I don't is have sex. That's all that I can think of and I honestly don't see why it should be that big of a deal that if you aren't getting it, you would walk away from a woman who has so many positives. I don't need a man to complete me, I have a lot going for me on my own, but when you've been single since H.S. with hardly any prospects, you wonder what you're doing wrong. So I put it to GC to know if sex is just that great that you would reject a woman's mind, heart, and spirit just because you can't have her you-know-what.