try telling him(and your ex) that you just need some time for yourself; right now you are not looking for (nor do you want)a relationship.
"paul" mentions that he has few friends. is he involved in any activities besides stalking you? suggest to "paul" that he join a club at school-go so far as to find some that might interest him,including contact information and share that info with him. maybe helping him find a hobby/interest will help him fill his days.
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