After reading all of these post, I'm a little freaked out right now. I think you guys are the best, and I appreciate your concerns. You guys are right, I should stop being so nice to people. It's going to be hard because this is the person I am. I think I may have the same problem with men I don't like, that PrettyBoy has with women he doesn't like. He may be right. Maybe men and women can't be friends. Guys always seem to want more from me. I met my X this way too. We started off as friends and I would have kept it that way, even though I thought he was cute, but he told me he liked me for more than a friend. I thought that since we were both greek that we would have a lot in common, well, he turned out to be a jerk. He was really mean to me, he would drink a lot and acted like he didn't care about me. So I broke up with him. Well now he wants to get back with me, and this new guy keeps coming over and calling me. I don't want neither one of them. I just REALLY want to be alone right now!
This new guy is really nice but very unattractive. He has a lot of bumps on his face and stuff. He does't shave very often either. I'm not attracted to guys like this. My sorority sisters have been calling him pizza face and crazy 8 face, and then they laugh. That's mean! I did tell them not to let him in anymore, and they said they wouldn't, but he hasn't been by since the last time he was over here. He wrote this letter to me. The other day he did come by but I wasn't there, so he left the letter and a rose on the door. I have the note right here. I'll type it. Here's what it says:
Dear (my real name): The past few weeks I've had a wonderful time with you. You are the nicest girl I've ever met, and by far the most attractive that I've ever seen. I find you very attractive now, and I'm sure I always will. Unfortunately, you don't feel the same way about me, and I understand, because most women don't (smilely face). I hope we can continue to be close friends though. I don't have a lot of friends here, and that was my primary reason for trying to join a fraternity, but that didn't work out. You are the only person who talks to me and laughs with me. I don't make friends very easily. I'm new here so maybe eventually I will get more friends. I really enjoy coming over your house to visit. You make me feel at home, but sometimes I get the feeling you don't want me around. Everytime I come over you look uneasy and uncomfortable. Do I make you feel this way? If I do, let me know and I will never bother you again. The last thing I want is to hurt you in anyway. I left the yellow rose with this letter because I think yellow means friendship, which is what we are. Are we? I'll call you tonight, and again if you don't want me to come around anymore, please let me know and I won't. If you do decide you don't want to see me anymore, I would hope we can at least talk in passing. O.K. take care and we'll talk tonight.
Sincerely
Your friend
Paul.
He hasn't called yet, but I know he will. I'm going to have to tell him how I feel. I hate to hurt him, but now I'm afraid of this situation. I'll keep you posted on my little soap opera
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