Aww My darling sister, I feel for you because I know you think these people are out of their flutterbudgetting minds, however, I have learned that when you join a sorority, a lot of time is spent telling you what to do and how to act and what to and not to say.
It is the "job" of my chapter's Membership Director to look for bad things and they will send us to discipline for anything and everything. So be thankful that it's just your PR of Panhel because I highly doubt that she'll have the time to search every member of all your campuses' sororities' public pages everyday all year long. (I'm on Panhel and the most we're planning on keeping track of is the Rho Gammas for affiliation). She really does sound very anal and she will give up after 5 hours of endless myspace pages anyways. Panhel after all, is a free job.
Give me three!
-Sis