Thanks for the advice everyone. Actually I couldn't wait to get on here to tell you guys what happend. Well, he came by again, about 3 hours ago. He just left
. We studied, and that's all. He tried to hug me again, and that's when I told him I wanted to talk to him. I told him I like him as a friend only. I told him I don't see him for anything more. I felt bad at 1st because I knew he was disappointed. He said well, since we're friends can I still study with you? I didn't know what to say at that point. I really wanted to tell him no, but I thought that would be so wrong. I don't throw away friends, so I told him I didn't have a problem with us studying together, but I'd rather study in the library, but not here.
About 10 minutes into studying he asked me what I didn't like about him. I looked around trying to think of how to tell him without hurting his feelings. At 1st I told him he wasn't my type. I was really trying to avoid the question. He's really aggressive. He asked why he wasn't my type. I told him I wasn't physically attracted to him. He asked me if he was greek would I like him better. I was like what?
. I said that physically he's not my type, that's all. He sounded o.k. by that at 1st but then things started to change. He asked me about my X. He asked me is he in a fraternity. I told him yes, but that's not why I was with him. He asked me why I broke up with him. I told him because he was a jerk. He said, that he's not a jerk so isn't inner beauty more important. I told him I know you're not a jerk but I want both, and I'm not into big muscular guys.
We took a break and I told him I was going to get something to eat. I offered him something, and he said no thanks. O.K. I went downstairs to the fridge and he followed me to the kitchen. I thought that was so bizarre
. He started telling me he loved my eyes and whoever ends up with me will be so lucky. Stuff like that. Well, at that point I told him I was tired and I was going to bed. That was about 30 minutes ago. Well I'm still up
. I had to lie to get him to leave. I walked him to the door, and then he says "I'll call you tomorrow."
Ya know he just doesn't get it. I DON'T LIKE HIM LIKE THAT! He won't give up! This is so aggravating! He's called me everyday since we met. I love talking to him, he's so sweet, but I'm going to have to tell him this whole friendship thing is not what I planned. I wake up every morning now, thinking of how to avoid him. I'll keep you guys posted. Thank you. You guys are great!
