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I think pledging not hazing is a very important part of the process. Attempting to deny those of that often causes anger and resentment on both sides of the spectrum. The term "hazing" has almost taken a ridiculous turn to be all-inclusive of anything--even looking at someone cross-eyed. I know that people will often go through great lengths to make certain they have the experiences of pledging--even if they have to go outside of the accepted circle to get it. People can say whatever they want about how things have changed but underneath, their belief system supports pledging and not MIP. Don't get me wrong, I love "all" of my Sorors no matter how they were made. It is often hard to get around the watchful eyes of those who are in control. All these issues should be discussed in the NPHC and some middle ground should be decided upon. However, as was already mentioned--there is a big difference between pledging and hazing. Undergound creates ghosts, posts and some grief. The greatest part is holding the line between the two counters--pledging or hazing.
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