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Originally Posted by tld221
ok i feel you on this... but black women do the same thing. if i say, "hey i think ima get my swirl on," arent i objectifying white men and trying to get a taste?
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I think it is a bit different because our interest (if the reason is purely sexual) is not based on some illusion that somehow white men are these sexually ravenous beings that are instinctively better in bed. . . it isn't based off of some slave master mentality that being with a white man is something I have longed to do but haven't because it has been taboo for so long. I think the reasoning behind it is differnet because of the history
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Originally Posted by tld221
for the most part, attraction transcends color lines... if you were "genuinely attracted" to a non-black man, it would be because:
--you find him attractive and he happens to be non-black
--you find him attractive due to the fact that he is non-black
in other words, was it an attraction to the looks or the skin?
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Attraction to looks and personality and he happened to be white. . .now if the wg is attracted to a brother's looks and personality - ok (still not in favor of it, but do what you do). However, my response was based on the comment 'I have never slept with a black man" - meaning color was the major factor . . not looks, not personality . . . plus she had posted that same dumb azz question/comment in another thread, but presented it in terms of sterotypical thoughts about AfAm men in bed.
