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Thanks everyone
All good advice. I agree with most everyone on the wait and see approach. I only see Steve about every 2 - 3 weeks anyway. I tried to just act like nothing was different whenI was around him.
I also followed Creams advice and sent an email to both John and Jeanette confirming the terms of the loans and just to see if everything was OK. I said that I had heard someone talking about it. (They wont like this, because the agrrement was to be confidential on both parties) So I bet when John or jeanette find out they might not be too happy that Steve was talking about it to others. I might not even have to talk to him about it as they might be the ones (John and Jeanette) who would like to have a word with him. Just an assumption.
Also JAM, thanks for the words, "By bringing up your situation, he tries to make HIS situation look/feel better to your crowd.
Lil_G is right about- give it some time. He may have pressures no one is aware of and is acting in "panic" mode. By talking about YOU he diverts attention from his situation." I never thought of it that way.
Keep the feed back coming and I'll let you know what the emails say.
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