[bluz4]

i have done the baby's momma drama once also. when i hooked up with the guy, i didnt know he had a daughter. then after i had fallen hard, i mean hard, for him, he dropped the bomb. i was back at school and he told me while i was watching ally mcbeal. i was upset and hurt because he didnt tell me the truth.
needless to say, i stayed with him because i already had feelings for him by that time. i really tried, i really tried. i met the baby's momma and even encouraged him to be a better daddy to that baby. before i came into the picture, he was denying it was his and just angry and resentful towards both of them.
me, knowing what it was like to be in a single parent household, encouraged him to have a relationship with the baby's momma. i would go with him to pick the baby up and then we'd go to the mall ( i bought her some things) and we even went to the beach once. my mom was calling me the "stepmom." i was all caught up and crazy. but it didnt work out and i became an emotional wreck. so now i know better and i ask whether the guy has any kids right after i ask him his name, age, educational background, goals, arrests record, and the M.S.M. question. (thats for those of yall that read essence!)